A story of misunderstanding and misinterpreting God's plan and almost missed opportunity…..
Tim stood outside the principal’s office. He was sure he knew what was going to happen at the upcoming meeting. The meeting had been set up four days ago, then postponed from 9 a.m. until 3 p.m. The waiting had been slightly nerve-wracking, to say the least. But, finally he was going to find out, would he have a job for next year or not? Just minutes before the principal called him in, his cell phone vibrated in his pocket. He glanced at it but did not recognize the incoming number and obviously that was not the time for a phone conversation anyway.
Tim stood outside the principal’s office. He was sure he knew what was going to happen at the upcoming meeting. The meeting had been set up four days ago, then postponed from 9 a.m. until 3 p.m. The waiting had been slightly nerve-wracking, to say the least. But, finally he was going to find out, would he have a job for next year or not? Just minutes before the principal called him in, his cell phone vibrated in his pocket. He glanced at it but did not recognize the incoming number and obviously that was not the time for a phone conversation anyway.
Later in the car, after having his
fears confirmed and finding out his teaching contract would NOT be renewed, he
listened to his phone message. He had applied
a few weeks before for a new job and the company wanted to interview him. He took this as a sign- God had a plan. He
had it all worked out and we were going to be fine.
The interview was a few days later
and it seemed to go very well. Tim was
qualified for the position, he had experience that would benefit the company
perfectly, the interviewer was even Catholic and the two of them discussed
their shared faith briefly. Again, Tim
felt at peace and confident. Things were
going to work out for the best.
Another interview, with another company, came a few days
later and that one included an offer on the spot. Tim agreed to consider it and promised to get
back with an answer soon. But, in his
mind, he felt sure the first job was the right one. After all, God had sent it at
the perfect time.
So, we waited and waited and waited
to hear back with an offer from the first job, the one we were sure was the
perfect fit and, obviously, God’s choice for our family. We reminded ourselves that if need-be the
other job was there, but it felt like a last resort for us, a sort of plan B if
job #1 for some strange reason did
not work out.
We waited and waited some
more. Tim called to follow up a few
times but never got through to anyone.
His messages went unanswered.
It did not make any sense but
eventually it became increasingly obvious his phone call and offer were not
coming. We were confused, upset,
disappointed. How could we have interpreted
God’s messages so wrong? How could He
have allowed our hopes to get up, only to be dashed in disappointment?
And yet, the phone was not ringing
and time was ticking ….
Tim called the second company back
and accepted that position. Thankfully, they had been patient with his indecision and they did still want him. The job is an
entry level position. Not exactly Tim's
dream job, and not great money. On the
plus side, it is in the industry he wants to be in. It may have great potential for advancement. And, best of all, it is a Christian
company.
This morning, Tim set off for his new
job, without any gap in employment at all.
A little part of him (and me) still wondered about that first job
though. How could we not? It had seemed God sent it to us Himself.
I
did not see Tim before he left the house this morning, so I called him on his
way. He shared with me that he had called
the first company one last time before he left for work and today, FINALLY, he
got through. They had offered what we
had been convinced was his perfect
job to someone else some time ago. We spoke a few more minutes then, Tim said, “I have to let you go.
I am here.”
“Right where God wants you to be, I
guess,” I said.
“Yes. It seems, I'm right where God wants me to be,”
he answered confidently.
God's plan for us is always infinitely better than what we have planned for ourselves. And sometimes, it takes a long time until we are able to look back and "see" that that was the case. (I know that has happened to me in my life) Fortunately, there was no gap in income for your family. Another way that God was watching over your family and keeping you all in His care. And who knows what is in store for Tim and his family in this new job! (Well, God knows!) God bless you. I'll pray that this new beginning of opportunities for Tim and you goes well. :)
ReplyDeleteGardenia- God's plan IS always better. I have seen that again and again in life. Yet I continue to make my own plans, and then, so often, to cling to them fiercely. We are still a little nervous about what the future holds. Hopefully this job will work out well, but like you said, only God knows for sure. Hopefully, I can remember to trust in Him the next time His plan differs completely from mine. :)
ReplyDeleteGod Bless!
Kari,
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to Tim on his new job!
Sometimes I am so sure I know what's in God's mind. I can find so many reasons to make His will agree with mine. As you said, I can see His plan so clearly it is OBVIOUS! Except it doesn't turn out that way at all!!! So I can identify so closely with what you are saying.
I am so happy Tim now has work and you can move on from wondering and hoping and maybe even worrying...
God is good and I hope Tim finds real fulfilment in his new work.
God bless you all!