My older son has
always been one to test his boundaries and push the limits. He has always been a little too smart for MY own good (if not his own) and often has
a way of manipulating me despite my efforts to not be taken in by his charms or scheming. My son has also always much preferred
unhealthy sugary snacks over good-for-you foods like fruits and
vegetables. Everyone at my house sort of
feels the same, even Tim and I, so this month I have declared a break from
sweets. As I was contemplating the
challenge of a month without desserts, I remembered a time from my older son’s
toddler years……
It was in the evening,
after dinner. I was probably a little
tired and worn down from the day. My son
had already been served dessert but, not surprisingly, he wanted more. When he asked, I decisively answered, “no”.
As is his way, he
asked again. As is my way, I tried to be
firm and said, “no” again.
He still wasn’t
satisfied with that answer so I went on to explain the importance of
moderation. I should have known better
than to engage in a debate of any sort with a toddler and especially with this
particular toddler, nevertheless...…..
“No more dessert. We must exercise a little self-control,” I told my precocious little boy. His eyes lit up in understanding and without a
word he promptly took off running excitedly around the house a few times. Then
he came back to me smiling, “I exercised my self-control mommy, now can I
have more dessert?”
Laughing, I gave
in and gave him more sweets. After all,
he did exercise.
That's so cute, Kari, but logical, too! My children out-do me in logic all the time - and, like you, I can't resist softening my resolve when they're being so loveable.
ReplyDeleteGod bless, Kari:-)