We had never blessed our house.
I had always wanted our house blessed but I thought you needed a priest to do
it. My house is never really clean
enough, or my life organized enough, to invite a priest over to bless our
house. So, we had lived here for eleven
years, and never blessed the place we call home.
Before
we purchased it and moved in, our house had quite a colorful history from what
we’ve heard from neighbors. One of the
previous owners had left the state giving the home to their son who invited his
friends in to live and party with him.
They would sit up drinking and blaring loud music into the wee hours of
the morning (according to a neighbor who witnessed it). The house, though it had been rehabbed by an
investor before we bought it, showed signs of abuse and neglect when we moved
in.
Even under our ownership, things have
been less than perfect here. There have
been disagreements, misunderstandings, and even fights. We have been known to snap at each other impatiently, to grumble and complain when we are feeling less than grateful, to give in to laziness, gluttony, greed, selfishness, etc.... I know, it is hard to believe but we live a less than virtuous life, at times. Have we allowed evil in?!?!?!?! Perhaps, upon occasion.
Needless to say, these walls needed
blessing.
A few weeks ago, after
a particularly bad day, I vented to my spiritual director about how hard life
had been. She suggested blessing our
house and then proceeded to tell me how to go about it. She said not only was it okay for the head of the
house to be the one praying over the rooms, but, as the head of our domestic church, it was actually best for Tim to be the one presiding over our
home blessing ceremony. She instructed me to
get some blessed salt and holy water and, while Tim led the prayers, to sprinkle
the rooms generously with both.
Blessed
salt? I had never heard of blessed
salt. My spiritual director assured me
it was a legitimate sacramental and that it was also quite effective in driving
out evil spirits.
Still
a little doubtful but very curious, I went home and did some research. Here, here, and here is some of what I read about blessed
salt. It all sounded good to me.
We
got some salt and had it blessed by our pastor.
Then, with our children, some holy water and our newly blessed salt, we prayed
over and ask God’s blessing on each of the rooms of our house. Here are the prayers we used.
I
would like to say that since then our home has been a place of beautiful peace.
That now freed of all evil spirits, the atmosphere of the house, and those
living within its walls, are more holy, more pious, and more righteous but that
is not quite true. Things
have been just a little bit more
peaceful and our conflicts have been resolved just a little more quickly. Luckily, we still have lots of blessed salt
left, and lots of holy water around….
congratulations on blessing your home. There's also a blessing to do ((I think)) at the new year, where you write some letters over your entrance door. I should check that out too.
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