I have read lots of home schooling books. One of my very, very favorites is Homeschooling for Excellence by David and Micki Colfax. By most standards, it is an old home schooling book- practically ancient really- and it’s been a few years since I've read it (though it was quite old even then). But, I loved it because it was all about finding balance in our home schools- between rigorous, structured learning and hand’s on, interest-led projects. I'm not always very good at that (especially the rigorous part). What I liked about the book most though, was that it was also about supporting our children in pursuing their passions and about helping them to excel in whatever areas they feel most called to.
For the Colfax children, I believe that included pig farming
and raising goats. I can only imagine
the mess and the stink that came with supporting those interests! I do all that I can to follow the model of
Mr. and Mrs. Colfax in supporting and encouraging my own children’s
interests. Thankfully, there are no pigs
or goats involved. But there is mess!
Here is our version of "homeschooling for excellence".....
My mornings are spent helping the kids with their school work. We work on academics until all the subjects
are finished for the day. Spelling, math, science, religion, geography, the
list goes on….. The piles of finished
work add up. Hopefully, their little
minds fill up as well. We usually finish
all our work just a little after lunchtime.
Our afternoons are filled with the things we love. We all have our hobbies and our interests. And the afternoon hours seem to fill themselves up quite easily.
The younger children just like to play, play, play. They have great imaginations and elaborate
pretending games they enjoy together.
Their favorites are anything sensory- play doh, the sand box, painting
or coloring projects. I provide the play
doh, the sand for the sand box, the art supplies, etc…. There is crusty play doh cemented on all my
kitchen utensils, gritty sand that was once stuck to sweaty little piggy toes scattered
all over my floors, and paint stains on my tables and chairs. I also provide the soap and the elbow grease
to try to keep up with it all.
My oldest daughter has discovered a deep and abiding love
for chocolate. Her afternoons lately are spent slaving away in the kitchen trying
to perfect her chocolate recipes. She
dreams one day of becoming a successful chocolatier. Being a supportive, encouraging mother, I do
all that I can to provide her what she needs to follow her dream. So for my budding chocolatier, I buy the
supplies and ingredients, I assist with stirring or rolling or measuring when
needed, I taste test the final products…. and then, I help scrub every inch of
the chocolate drenched kitchen and wash out the chocolate ensconced dish towels
and dishrags.
Creativity can be a demanding and messy thing…. Thankfully,
at my house it's sometimes a very tasty
thing too……
I love having a balance between work and play, too, Kari. And, also, having busy mornings and relaxed activities, in the afternoon. One of my daughters loves baking, as well, and our kitchen gets messy, too! I love seeing a sink full of cookware - it's so real!
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing your days, Kari. Our blogging community may be miles apart but I find this sharing so companionable and encouraging:-)
God bless:-)
Vicky-
DeleteNow that you have seen a little of what my kitchen looks like, you can probably understand why your posts on beautiful home making are so impressive to me. :-) It really is an art- unfortunately one I am not so skilled at.
I'm so glad you find encouragement in my posts! Your post very much encourage me as well. Blogging is a wonderful way to connect with others and to make the miles seem insignificant.
Many blessings, Kari